Friday, October 26, 2012

Day 365

I cant believe we are already are at day 365. I am glad we decided to have a long engagement rather than a short one. I couldn't imagine getting married today! 

We sent out our Save the Dates and our engagement photos today. I read that for a destination wedding giving more notice is better. Our pictures turned out pretty well with special thanks to my friend Eren who took them. I am disappointed we didn't get better shots but I believe it was the weathers fault, it was a pretty windy day that we decided to do it. 

I also purchased my wedding dress this week. I pulled a Carrie Bradshaw and just bought a dress without the traditional bridal shopping trip. I had been looking online at dresses for a few weeks, and had been saving the ones I liked in my favorites. However, there was one particular gown I had become rather fond of, I called it the Greek goddess dress because it reminded me of something Aphrodite would be sculpted wearing. It is simple, flowing, and elegantly romantic, which is everything I was looking for in a wedding dress. 

After several days I returned to my favorites to glance at it and the Davids Bridal website had taken the dress down and posted a note that let viewers know this dress (Greek goddess) had been discontinued. My heart became heavy. I frantically began searching the internet for this dress on eBay, amazon and anywhere I think it could have been. I was able to find it through the manufactures, straight from China. I was apprehensive about ordering something so special to me through such a long chain. My cousin Leanna -my moral support during all of this-reminded me that most clothing comes from other countries. 

I took several days to deliberation and research on sizing, I decided that I would be upset to let this offer pass. Did I mention that the dress was significantly cheaper through the manufactures website? Go figure, right. To get it made and shipped to me from China cost a third of the price that Davids Bridal wanted for just the dress and nothing more. I read reviews and most of them said "You receive exactly what you order." I will post a picture of the dress once I receive it, I ordered it in ivory. 

I did not mean to hurt anyone's feeling by not doing the shopping trip, I just felt like I got the best deal. Danny is very adamant about not seeing it until we are getting married. I will still need people to model it for when it comes in! 

Last night we were going to try to do something special for our pre-anniversary day. Danny had to work until 8 though so we had a low key night when we came home. However he did get dressed up, we played chess, had a beer and watched some CSI. Not a bad evening! 

Sunday, October 14, 2012

Day 377

Sorry it has been awhile since I have brought anyone up to speed. It has been a busy time of year with school and work. Danny has been working anywhere from  45-60 hours a week between his jobs. That is not including his school work. He is my hero. We have been working on some wedding things however.

 We got his attire for the wedding (mostly) picked out and purchased.  We knew we wanted gray for his suit and we had our eye on one particular suit at Macy's  last week when they went into their Columbus Day savings we were able to pick up exactly what he wanted for about 75% off! What a steal!

He looks so handsome! 

I started working on my vows today. Just the first draft but for some reason I felt relatively inspired today while watching Pirates of the Caribbean during Danny's 10 1/2 hour day. 

Note this is just a first draft, and Danny has been advised to no longer be an avid follower of this blog(that way I can start posting the good stuff).

" When I was young I promised myself I would never be with someone who I wouldn't commit a crime with. Though I have no desire to do ill will, the point was to never settle for someone who did not inspire great adventure. My heart reminds me of this every time I look at you. I see a man who encourages me to grow everyday. A man who is strong and wise in his silent way.  A man who loves and forgives as easily as he breathes. A man who has faced struggles but still greets each day with an open mind and warm smile. A man who hold me to the highest honor and never lets me feel anything less than sweetly blessed. A man who will go out of his way to make someone else feel hope. You continually teach me what love truly is. As we begin this stage of our adventure I promise to spend my time nurturing your dreams, feeding your thoughts, cherishing your talents, freeing your fears and simply holding your hand with mine in those quiet moments. I pledge, above all things, to give you the love of my whole heart and entire brain no matter which paths we pursue or challenges we must conquer, for forever and a day." 

What do you think? Any thoughts or edits? Is it to mushy?